It is always, Both / And…



As I watch the polarization of humanity, in all different realms in our world of duality, I have seen a simple solution.

We must realize that the answer is always, Both / And…

What do I mean by this? Lets look at a few examples.

Religion and Science

Evolution or Creative Design?

How about both. There is a constant debate, back and forth, between these two camps. What if we accept it is both, as explained in the book, “BioCentrism” by Robert Landa, MD.

The fact that we exist to witness the wonders of our universe, while having such a limited perceptual field, brings the notion that it wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for us to perceive.

This supports the concept that when we think of the creation story, it is a metaphoric translation of the fact that the beginning of the universe, was the first conscious thought. And as another and another thought was added to the whole, there was a space for light to be created.

My point being, it would take both the etheric unfoldings, of creations perfection, to stimulate such a small vibrational frequency bandwidth,  for us to perceive. And, the physical and conscious evolution of those  creatures upon the planet, to transmute into the physical expressions that survive today. As we see those whose beings were designed for a different time (like a Rhinoceros), edging out of the newer, higher bandwidth, that the planet and other conscious beings are moving into.

Science is the measuring stick, but science let go of the ghost in the machine. When Descartes declared the universe a mechanical system. It relegated the spiritual element that the Mystics, Druids and other Alchemists held to the shadows. Removing the combined connection that both Science and Spirituality brought to the table.

Finally, with quantum physics, we are bringing the two sects of duality in this matter back to the marriage they held for so many years. The observer effects the observed.

Freewill & Fate-

Once again, not separate entities, but two sides of the same coin.

There is, as many of us have lived, the flow of life. Where synchronicity seems to be firing off for us as we move forward. And other times where we feel like we are swimming against a raging rapids.

So in this syncronistic patterning, life and our individual aspect of our Soul, are offered a course to flow within.  Sometimes this flow happens when we are following a contract we have set up with another before we arrived here, other agreements are made in dreams, with other sleeping Souls.

The Freewill portion of this combination is our choice how to respond to what is placed before us. If each of us is an expression of Spirit, combined with our individual aspect of self, the error comes in choosing against what you know to be the true answer or action.

Most of us choose to hide in the fear instead of realizing that the gift of synchronicity is on the other-side of our fear.

Both / And… If things weren’t set in motion for us from external forces, we would never be challenged to stretch our bodies or consciousness in the ways we do when thrust into situations, where we say WTF? And forgetting that we set up the moment for ourselves.

Taking Action and Trusting the Universe to provide

As we each direct the creation of our lives, through our choices and flow, we step into the video game of life.

When my children were younger, I used this to describe how to work with life. Deciphering between the possibilities and the probabilities.

I told them to think about it as if playing a role-playing game. They are their Higher Self, projecting this physical body into the 3 dimensional realm, and arriving at a door.

The universe provided the door. We have to choose whether it is a door for us, or not. Once we walk into a level, it is our act of trusting that the Clues have been placed all around us, to find, interpret, and take actions upon those findings. Do I break open this box or that one, find the potion or trinket that will help us as we move to the next level.

All the clues are there. We just have to get our Ego, out-of-the-way. The aspect of ourselves which believes it knows best by taking action only to serve the self. Whether it is hiding from our fears, or acting out in controlling, and unhappy ways, because life becomes much more of a struggle when we try to force life to match our will only.

Politics and the Two Party System- Okay… I’m not even going to touch this one at this time. Ha!

These are just a few of ways we can bring the conflicting polarization’s to an end.

If you have other examples of Both / And…, please share them in the comments.

Blessings, Love and Light to you…

Ego or Soul Surviving Life…



I see it all the time. People trying to control their environment through emotional impact or just aggressive exertion. All with the same desired outcome, to control life, avoid fear, and make it through the day. The problem is thinking we are in control, when we are fighting against the current that life is unfolding in front of us.

Starseed 1

This passage is from the book, “The Star-Seed Transmissions”, it was written many years ago, and still it is a guidance reference for those who know we have to raise the vibration of humanity if we are to survive. The issue is, are we willing to trust and move with life? Or, still believe we must push against it, force it to our Ego-will.

Life is always, in the moment, giving us clues as to which direction or choice is going to serve. The problem is, in our fear and most often scarcity consciousness, we stop looking. We choose to not see what is immediately in front of us, shinning just a little brighter, trying to get our attention. Most of the time we sweep it by with our emotions of fear and lack, using our Ego-will, instead of learning to surrender and trust the current flowing around us.

FEAR is an acronym for, “False Evidence Appearing Real”.  As I have spoken before about our 4 body system, fear is just an energetic reminder to open our eyes a little wider, listen a little deeper, to pay attention a little stronger. Mostly we shrink and miss it all. I am still learning this one.

And, everyday I open myself up more to the mystery. To know that in the moment, the answer is there if I look inside, and out, for it. That life wants us to succeed, to flourish, to bring our wholeness to the fore, and make life forwarding choices.

What is a life forwarding choice? Well, if I am an extension of all that is, shouldn’t my choices be made to include all that is? So I have come up with a challenge question to use in the moment when I haven’t found the clues, and still need to make a choice.

“Does the answer I am creating serve everyone involved? Or, just me?”

To live a Soul Surviving Life means to live for life itself… I support it, and it supports me. A symbiotic relationship with the unseen energies that are swirling all around me. To know that I wasn’t placed on this planet to just serve myself. I was placed here to witness life, to record it for all of consciousness, through my senses and my mind. To blend the etheric and the physical into a union that supports all life I come into contact with. It certainly is a challenge, but one worth striving for.

Think of it this way… If all I am doing is living to serve myself, why would life need me to continue? I am in no way contributing to the unfolding of consciousness when I am thinking only of myself.

But, if I am living to witness and dance within the frequencies of Love, support, Light and growth, I am living a life that is beneficial to life. I hold that this is the one thing I can do for the universe and all of its inhabitants. And in doing so, life is happy to oblige my quirky desires from time to time. And, when it is time to transition from 3d to another level of reality, life says, “come along… you have helped us so far, we can use you as we move forward.”

I hold this as Truth. I hope you find your ability to live a Soul Surviving Life… If you feel close, keep moving with it, the miracles that are waiting to unfold are there for you. Not your Ego.

If you find yourself struggling… I am here to help. I’m just a message away. Now, create for life because life includes you!

Where is your heart for the world…



We will win… The light in your heart is needed. As our world spins out of control, it is you who is needed. It is time to drop the fear and separation that our governments and mainstream media want us to believe.

It is time to reach down into your Soul and call upon your courage to stand up for the truth. The truth is that our country is systematically being ripped apart, on purpose. Our supposed leaders certainly have shown us lately that they have no concern for the populace of this nation. How our civil liberties have been sold to the highest bidder. How the corporate controllers are allowed to do whatever they wish, without any fear of reprisal.

We are the one’s who are here to hold them accountable. We are the one’s to start a new American revolution. The problem is that we are too afraid, to lazy, and too comfortable to do anything about it.

As the line in the Broadway Musical,”Hamilton”,

“If you stand for nothing, what will you fall for.”

And it is time to follow this line;

“I would rather be divisive, than indecisive.”

It is time to start making noise. This video is about 40 years old but it is so much more appropriate now.

As I say this it may be misconstrued that I am calling for violence. On the contrary, I am calling for your compassion, your heart, your voice. Speak for those who cannot. Defend the defenceless. Stand up for the right thing. Reach into your heart and become the Angel you pray too. Be the light of Spirit and let your light flood through the darkness. Risk a lot to save a lot. If your precious life is worth living, then what are you living for?

Why are you here, if you are not working to make this world better, why are you here? A flat screen, a pretty rock, your ego being stroked?

Who is willing to help make this world a better place, for my children? For all of the children.

It is time for the old guard and consciousness to be replaced by the new. Are you willing to step out of comfort to recreate the world? You have the power, stop hiding, spread your wings, and light upon all you come in contact with. It will spread… We can change the world.

Whose with me?

Life at it’s core…


How many times life allows us to renew ourselves, as it unfolds before us. 
Each moment our bodies are projected into this 3d world in occilating wave forms of probability. Allowing us in every moment to regenerate and recreate the frequencies of health and direction of path and purpose.

When we drag the anchors of our past experience into the new moment, we are keeping the past moment alive in our cells, and they will respond accordingly.

Miracles exisit within the choosing of a new vision, and conscious choice to disprupt the pattern we have set into motion. 

What miracle would you choose to see unfold in your life, knowing you have the power to instantly create a new vision of where your life should be, and live it without question.

Be the bravest version of yourself and take everyones reaction out of the equation. Where will you find yourself if you did?

Blessings Love & Light to you and those you hold dear…





The word can bring fear to the heart of the undecided. To overthink and create a myriad of imaginary scenarios, based upon the musings of the fearful mind.

There is a subtly difference between the feelings of doubt, and the intuitive voice, speaking from within. Usually doubt begins when we let go of the capacity to believe in our worth to live up to what is being laid before us in the moment.

Intuition that tells us to tread lightly, does not base it’s concern through a projected created reality that comes from false evidence appearing real (FEAR).

I certainly live with doubt, and again I know that my doubts are do to my continued work on my place and worth in the world. Everyday I must choose the strength of the knowledge that no one is above me, and no one is below me. That I have everything I need to succeed in the face of my fears…

Intuition does not create imaginations of peril. It quietly asks, “Is this really for you?”

The quest is to learn the language of my doubt, and intuition enough to know the difference.

Blessings, Love & Light to you and those you hold dear…


via Daily Prompt: Doubt

Midlife Crisis or realignment to the self…


So I bought a new car… Yes, I’m half a century old and it is a sports car. After telling my son he stated he wanted to call it my mid-life crisis. I told him that was fine and we moved on. But it has been sitting with me for days.

A few years ago both my children basically moved away to start their own lives. It was a major event in my world, where we had daily interactions, they be came much less frequent. I went into a self searching mode for a few months, asking the question,

“What do you do when your whole life for the past 23 years was focused on being a parent, and that comes to an end?”

For the first time in my life, since I was 25 years old, I was not directly responsible for the well-being of another human being. I was only truly responsible for myself. It was crazy making going through the release of the parenting mode I had lived in for years and years, and it was about a 2 year process to come to terms with.

So, I started thinking about what I want to do, what I want to have, and who I want to be…

It is not so much a midlife crisis as it is a continuation of where life was before it diverted to parenting. I loved being a parent. It was hard and stressful at times, but it was a wonderful feeling to work to be my best self and guide my children as I could to step into their lives.

Now I am slowly working into my life again. One where my children are not as intertwined with me, and I can create the life that is unfolding before me.

New beginning? Yes. Crisis, no.

I can’t wait to see where this takes me… The journey continues…

Oh, here is a picture of the car I bought… I love it.